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Hi, I’m Juhh!
The start of a new year is the perfect time to set goals, but why not make them more exciting and whimsical? Instead of the usual resolutions like exercising more or saving money, let’s focus on goals that add joy, adventure, and a touch of magic to everyday life. These unconventional goals will help you embrace the beauty of small moments, romanticize daily routines, and create a year full of memorable experiences.
Why set unconventional goals?
Traditional resolutions often feel like obligations, making them easy to abandon. Unconventional goals, on the other hand, spark excitement and creativity. They encourage spontaneity, help see beauty in the ordinary, and turn life into a collection of joyful moments. Whether it’s dancing in the rain, writing love letters to your future self, or making an ordinary Tuesday feel like a holiday, these goals will help make every day special.
100 Unconventional goals for the New Year
1. Curate a signature scent for the year
Choosing a perfume or essential oil that defines the year creates a sensory memory, making future you nostalgic for this time in your life.
2. Write a letter to your future self
Seal it and open it next New Year’s Eve. Fill it with hopes, dreams, and reminders of who you are today.
3. Plan a solo date once a month
Take yourself out for coffee, a museum visit, or a scenic walk. Romanticizing alone time makes it even more special.
4. Read a book in the most picturesque setting you can find
A cozy café, a flower-filled park, or by candlelight on a rainy day—let the setting enhance the experience.
5. Take pictures of small, beautiful moments
Not just vacations or special occasions—capture the way the sunlight hits your morning coffee or the first signs of spring.
6. Have a technology-free day once a month
Experience life without distractions. Write, read, cook, or just enjoy the present moment without notifications.
7. Celebrate random holidays
National Ice Cream Day? World Kindness Day? Find quirky holidays and celebrate them in fun, unexpected ways.
8. Make a playlist for every season
Curate songs that match the mood of winter coziness, spring renewal, summer adventure, and autumn nostalgia.
9. Send handwritten letters to friends
Receiving a personal note in the mail is rare and special. Spread a little joy the old-fashioned way.
10. Try a new aesthetic for a week
Cottagecore, dark academia, vintage glamour—dress, decorate, and live in a different aesthetic just for fun.
11. Light candles during dinner, even on weekdays
Make every meal feel like a special occasion, whether it’s takeout or a homemade dish.
12. Drink your morning coffee or tea by a window, without distractions
Take a moment to truly enjoy the aroma, warmth, and ritual of starting your day.
13. Create a dream bedtime routine
Incorporate a cozy drink, soft lighting, and a book to turn nighttime into a peaceful ritual.
14. Buy yourself fresh flowers regularly
A simple way to bring beauty into your space and brighten any ordinary day.
15. Walk barefoot in the grass more often
Feel more connected to nature and experience the simple joy of being grounded.
16. Have a stargazing night with soft music and a cozy blanket
Even in your backyard, looking up at the stars can feel magical.
17. Dance in your room like it’s a scene from a movie
Put on your favorite song, twirl around, and fully embrace the moment.
18. Keep a gratitude journal but make it poetic
Instead of a simple list, describe what you’re grateful for in a way that makes it feel like a story.
19. Collect little trinkets that make you happy
A pressed flower, a beautiful postcard, a tiny seashell—fill your space with tiny, meaningful treasures.
20. Make a vision board that feels like a dreamy Pinterest aesthetic
Curate images that inspire you, not just for goals, but for the way you want life to feel.
21. Say yes to at least five unexpected invitations
Sometimes, the best memories come from spontaneous plans.
22. Spend an entire day exploring your city as a tourist
Visit places you’ve never been, try new food, and see your surroundings with fresh eyes.
23. Get lost on purpose
Go on a walk or drive without a destination and see where life takes you.
24. Book a mystery trip
Pick a random spot on the map or let someone else plan a surprise getaway for you.
25. Go on a sunrise adventure
Find the best spot to watch the sun rise and start the day in the most peaceful way possible.
26. Try writing poetry, even if you’ve never done it before
Capture emotions, moments, or dreams in a creative and personal way.
27. Learn a new way to express yourself artistically
Painting, dancing, photography—find a creative outlet that brings you joy.
28. Create a scrapbook of beautiful moments
Collect photos, tickets, pressed flowers, and little notes to remember the best parts of the year.
29. Design your dream journal
Make journaling an experience with beautiful paper, stickers, and your favorite pens.
30. Speak in a different accent for a day
Have fun experimenting with different tones and expressions—it’s silly, fun, and confidence-boosting.
31. Have a candlelit dinner for no reason at all
Whether alone or with someone special, make any evening feel romantic.
32. Leave cute notes for people you care about
Hide them in books, bags, or on mirrors to spread unexpected joy.
33. Say “I love you” in different languages
Learn to express love in new and beautiful ways.
34. Recreate a romantic scene from a movie
Whether it’s a picnic under fairy lights or a handwritten letter, bring movie magic into real life.
35. Plan a dream date for yourself or someone special
Make it elaborate, thoughtful, and full of little details that make it unforgettable.
36. Create a cozy rainy day ritual
Transform gloomy weather into something magical by brewing a special tea, wrapping yourself in a soft blanket, and listening to the sound of raindrops.
37. Send postcards to your future self
Write a short note about your thoughts, dreams, or experiences and mail it to yourself to open at a later date.
38. Wear perfume before bed just for yourself
Choose a scent that soothes or excites you, making even the smallest moments feel special.
39. Take yourself on a bookstore date
Wander through the aisles, explore different genres, and pick a book that speaks to your soul.
40. Spend time watching the clouds
Lie on the grass, look up at the sky, and let your imagination shape the clouds into dreamy stories.
41. Carry a tiny notebook for spontaneous thoughts
Jot down ideas, dreams, or beautiful moments you don’t want to forget.
42. Drink from a beautiful teacup every day
Even if it’s just water, using an elegant cup can make the ordinary feel luxurious.
43. Start a collection of small, meaningful treasures
Gather unique finds like pressed flowers, antique keys, or colorful stones that bring you joy.
44. Visit the same place at different times of the day
Notice how the light, atmosphere, and energy change from morning to night.
45. Create a personal soundtrack for your year
Select songs that match different emotions, milestones, and memories throughout the seasons.
46. Find a secret hideaway spot
Discover a cozy café, a peaceful garden, or a quiet rooftop where you can escape and reflect.
47. Spend an evening with only candlelight
Turn off artificial lights and let the soft glow create a warm, intimate ambiance.
48. Give each season its own special tradition
Savor autumn by reading poetry, embrace summer with barefoot walks, and welcome winter with homemade cocoa.
49. Watch a classic black-and-white movie once a month
Immerse yourself in the elegance of old Hollywood and let nostalgia wash over you.
50. Leave a book in a public place with a heartfelt note inside
Encourage a stranger to enjoy a story that meant something to you.
51. Spend an entire day without looking at the clock
Let time flow naturally and experience the freedom of an unscheduled day.
52. Write down your favorite quotes and place them around your home
Fill your space with words that uplift and inspire you daily.
53. Take a different route home just to explore
Discover new streets, hidden cafés, or small details you’ve never noticed before.
54. Wake up early to watch the sunrise
Wrap yourself in a blanket, sip a warm drink, and soak in the peaceful beauty of a new day.
55. Learn to make an elegant dessert from scratch
Master something decadent like crème brûlée or macarons to treat yourself whenever you want.
56. Whisper your wishes into the wind
Let your dreams drift into the universe as you speak them softly into the air.
57. Start a handwritten poetry journal
Write your own verses or collect beautiful lines that resonate with your soul.
58. Sleep under the stars at least once
Even if it’s just in your backyard, let the night sky be your ceiling for an evening.
59. Wear your favorite outfit just because
Dress up in something that makes you feel radiant, even if you’re staying home.
60. Visit an art museum and write down your thoughts on your favorite piece
Let the artwork speak to you, and capture your feelings in a journal.
61. Learn a lullaby in a different language
Sing it to yourself on nights when you need comfort or a sense of nostalgia.
62. Paint your nails a color that makes you feel powerful
Choose a shade that reflects your energy, whether it’s a bold red, a deep blue, or a shimmering gold.
63. Read a book in a genre you’ve never explored before
Step outside your reading comfort zone and discover a new world through literature.
64. Create a cozy corner just for daydreaming
Fill it with soft blankets, fairy lights, and a comfy chair where you can let your thoughts wander.
65. Try a completely new type of cuisine
Cook or order something from a country you’ve never explored through food and savor the experience.
66. Walk through a flower market just to admire the colors and scents
Breathe in the beauty of fresh blooms and maybe take a small bouquet home.
67. Take photos of little everyday moments that make you happy
Capture tiny joys like sunlight streaming through a window or the first sip of coffee.
68. Write yourself a love letter
Remind yourself of your strengths, your beauty, and everything you love about who you are.
69. Watch a sunset from a completely new place
Find a scenic spot where you’ve never watched the sky change colors before.
70. Buy a small piece of jewelry that symbolizes something special
Let it be a daily reminder of a goal, a dream, or a meaningful memory.
71. Start a scrapbook of beautiful memories
Collect photos, tickets, and little mementos that bring back moments of joy.
72. Slow dance in your living room
Put on a romantic song and sway, even if you’re by yourself.
73. Keep a gratitude jar
Write down small things that make you happy and read them at the end of the year.
74. Treat yourself to fresh flowers regularly
Brighten up your space with a bouquet that makes you smile.
75. Walk barefoot on different textures
Feel the grass, sand, or cool tiles under your feet and be present in the moment.
76. Try writing a short story just for fun
Let your imagination flow without any pressure or expectations.
77. Plan a picnic for yourself
Pack your favorite foods, a good book, and enjoy a quiet meal outdoors.
78. Take a bath by candlelight with soft music
Make an ordinary bath feel like a spa-like escape.
79. Watch the rain from a window with a warm drink
Let yourself fully experience the calm and beauty of a rainy day.
80. Pick a signature scent for the year
Find a perfume or essential oil that will remind you of this time in your life.
81. Celebrate your half-birthday
Bake yourself a cake, light a candle, and enjoy a personal mini-celebration.
82. Learn to say “I love you” in five different languages
Express love in different ways and cultures.
83. Take a mental health day without guilt
Give yourself permission to rest and recharge whenever you need it.
84. Write down the best thing that happened each day
Even on hard days, find one tiny moment of joy or peace.
85. Lie in the grass and listen to the world around you
Close your eyes and tune into the sounds of nature, life, and the breeze.
86. Surprise a friend with a heartfelt handwritten letter
Express your gratitude and appreciation for someone special in your life.
87. Try a new form of artistic expression
Experiment with painting, calligraphy, or clay sculpting just for fun.
88. Make a wish on the first star you see at night
Let yourself believe in a little bit of magic.
89. Spend an afternoon doing absolutely nothing
Give yourself permission to rest without needing to be productive.
90. Wear something that makes you feel like the main character in a movie
Put on an outfit that makes you feel confident and ready for an adventure.
91. Start a morning ritual that makes you excited to wake up
Whether it’s brewing a special coffee, stretching in the sunlight, or reading a page from a favorite book, create a routine that sets the tone for a beautiful day.
92. Watch a movie from a different decade each month
Experience the charm, music, and storytelling styles of different eras, from the 1920s to the early 2000s.
93. Buy yourself a fancy pastry just because
Go to a bakery and pick out the prettiest, most indulgent treat without any special occasion.
94. Walk in the rain without an umbrella at least once
Feel the water on your skin, splash in puddles, and embrace the spontaneous joy of the moment.
95. Press a flower inside a book and come back to it later
Capture a little piece of nature and let it surprise you in the future.
96. Light a candle every night while you unwind
Choose a scent that calms you and let it mark the transition from busy to peaceful.
97. Find a café that feels like a second home
Discover a cozy spot where you love spending time, whether for reading, writing, or people-watching.
98. Visit a place that reminds you of your childhood
Revisit an old park, a favorite ice cream shop, or any spot that brings back nostalgic memories.
99. Make your own signature drink
Experiment with flavors until you create a special tea, coffee, or mocktail that feels like “you.”
100. Romanticize your daily commute
Listen to an inspiring playlist, observe the world around you, and treat the journey as a peaceful moment instead of just a routine task.
Setting unconventional goals makes life feel more like a story worth telling. Whether it’s dancing in the kitchen, sending love letters to the future, or making everyday moments feel cinematic, these goals will fill the year with magic. Instead of chasing traditional success, why not focus on joy, adventure, and a little bit of romance? Here’s to a year that feels like a dream!
Kisses, Juhh!